Jessica Prasad

Divorce Without Drama: How I Did It Solo and Empower Parents to Thrive

My journey through separation and divorce wasn’t exactly conventional, but it shaped me in ways I never expected. Despite the challenges, it inspired me to write a children’s book, I Have Two of Everything, offering positivity and support for co-parenting families.When my ex and I decided to part ways, we prioritized our daughter and pursued a joint divorce. Instead of hiring costly lawyers, I navigated the process on my own, using online resources, mediation, and pro bono legal services. While the process was stressful—such as correcting rejected paperwork—it taught me resilience and self-advocacy. Ultimately, my divorce cost under $1,000, an outcome I’m grateful for.This experience showed me the need for more resources and support for families facing divorce. I wish I’d had more guidance and a platform like this to help me through the process. While the divorce system may differ in Canada or elsewhere, I’m here to support parents globally, particularly those who are self-employed or own businesses, by sharing strategies and tools for navigating divorce with dignity and grace.

Ways I Can Help Others with Divorce:

1. Encourage Joint Divorce: Advocate for mutual cooperation to minimize conflict and focus on the children.
2. Share Cost-Saving Tips: Provide guidance on using mediators, pro bono legal services, and online resources.
3. Simplify Child Custody Scheduling: Offer advice on creating fair and practical custody arrangements that prioritize the children’s needs.
4. Promote Resilience: Offer encouragement to embrace the transition as an opportunity for personal growth.
5. Help Self-Employed Parents: Provide tailored support for managing divorce while balancing the demands of running a business.
6. Inspire Positive Co-Parenting: Share strategies for fostering respectful relationships and maintaining a child-focused partnership.No matter where you’re located, I aim to empower parents to navigate divorce with confidence, positivity, and hope for a brighter future.